Optimist thinking is the key to happiness, and happiness unlocks many, many doors. Rewind that horrible moment and re-evaluate, look at the little things and smile. You learned something, and remember experience is priceless. Life without the adversity is like a rainbow without a little rain. Adversity allows growth as human beings so we can develop and progress into who we are. It's sort of like a puzzle and it's impossible to finish a puzzle without getting a few pieces wrong. Smile throughout and be positive and the pieces will come to you. Think about it if you expect the worst, the worst will come to you. Fair enough expecting the worst ensures you won't be disappointed, but sometimes letting your hopes and aspiration pass several galaxies is great. You may not reach them but what the hey! At least the scenery above you is breathtaking. Life is so short, sadly death is inevitable but why give in. Scare death with optimism, hope and dreams, grab life by its bullhorns and ride it to the ground. Sometimes, yes you need to cry, scream, kick and punch around but you see much clearer once you washed the dirt with floods of tears. So don't be afraid, scream all you want laugh untill you pee yourself. Look in the mirror and be proud, you belong to the 10% of the world that are happy. And when you feel down, look back and count all the things that you're grateful for even include things you would normally overlook, like being alive, breathing, being able to read ;)
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I dare you to actually live!
